Anti-scam philosophy of Lady Fox

There are dozens of dating sites in the Internet today, they grow like mushrooms in rainy day and very often lonely people, who really want to look for their lovely partner in all corners of the world, don't know where to start and who is really reliable among those numerous Internet-services. And if they choose wrong place for searching for their true Love,scammers can appear. Who are scammers and why they are so dangerous for those people, who don't have enough experience in virtual dating to recognize any lie? As we are interested in protecting our site from scammers as well as you are, here are some tips for those who had never met a scammer yet (and wouldn't like to have such bad luck).

So, what is scam? Scam is any type of wrong using a date site account by scammer. Scammer can be a lady, who registered on a dating site not with intention to find her beloved man, but to pursue her own dishonest goals and to deceive men, who believed her. Also that can be a person, who uses a dating site services under an assumed name and photos — sometimes that can be even a man, not lady. But all the scammers appear only that time, when a dating site allows them. How can the site protect users from scam and how can you raise that protection level?

First of all be careful while choosing a dating site — the sites that don't protect their clients from scam are easily to find. They won't ask any documents from their new registered clients, so as any fee for using services — everybody has free access to a registration page, which takes a minute to create an account. If you see such site, be careful, because anyone can post any data and photos without any control. Be patient and don't try to find serious relations with a lady, who lives far from your country, on such easy-to-come-in sites.

Second, you won't have the full access to any profiles on the site, which is really protecting its clients — can there be any serious attitude to protection of personal data, if all users of Internet can come into a site and watch all the information about any client? No. Touching such private wish as finding your life partner, there is no room for publicity.

Then, finding some dating site pay attention to its common appearance — will a serious organization, promising privacy and quality and high attention to all client, make a cheap design with awful interface and terrible usability? No, definitely. Searching your love will take some of your time and be prepared to spend on the chosen site not a couple of days, but at least couple of months (or do you think that serious ladies will allow choosing them like soap in a market?). That is why it is better to find a site with nice and pleasant design. Very often respectable and serious dating site try to make light and plain but at the same time very comfortable and clean design in a good local design company — they are ready to work hard with client for years, not for days, and that is why they pay attention to comfortable conditions.

Next, try to find requirements for new registering ladies. If there is no information about checking ladies profiles, that means that scammers will use such opportunity to become a member. Try to register only on those sites, which check information in ladies profiles. For example, on our site there is a system of computer checking of correct filling in information about a country and a city with help of ladies' IP-addresses and further comparing this data with written in profiles. Also, if a man has strong hesitations about personality of a lady, he can ask us to demand her passport or other personal document — if she really has nothing to hide she will send the copy immediately. That is why there are only women with sincere and clean intentions among female clients of a dating site with such approach to the registration check process.

Also, try to find as full list of services as possible. If a dating site offers only exchanges of letters, there are no guarantees that a lady writes them personally or that the person is real. Serious sites try to provide as "real" communication between two people from different corners of the World, as possible. You can't fall in love with a person, who shows himself (or herself) only in written form. Nothing can tell as more as a smile and eyes language. That is why be sure that you'll be able to see video clips in ladies profiles and even talk with a girl with help of web-conferences or web-chats. Web-conference with a lady, which you want to know better, won't be as expensive as weeks of letters finished by vain travel to the opposite end of the Universe. If you see that you'll be able to communicate with a lady on this site as close as it's possible, then, perhaps, that is the proper dating site for you to register and try your luck to find a faithful bride and mother of your future children ;)

Besides, be free to ask everything at support page of chose site — quick and compassionate responses will show you if the site administration really interested in their client or if it is only insignificant words. You should feel yourself not like a guest on a dating site, but like a member of a caring family. Be safe and use only defensive services — that is what we recommend as we are as interested in your protection and happiness as you are.